"Let's Say No to Single Motherhood in 2021!"

 

I think a battery of psychological exams should be given to EVERY female who DECIDES to become a single mother knowing that she can't afford a baby. I think these tests should be mandatory for any single and never married woman who decides to get pregnant without a good paying job, an education, transportation, health insurance, stable housing, and a plan in place for child care that she can actually afford with her own money and resources.  I think that she should be given a battery of psychological tests to see if she is even sane and emotionally stable enough to be a decent mother to an innocent child who did not ask to be brought here. I think that since she decides against getting prepared educationally, economically, and even emotionally before allowing herself to become pregnant by a man who is not a loving, supportive and financially stabled husband, she should foot the entire bill that comes with rearing a child by herself.


These psychological examinations should be made mandatory only if this single/never married female decides to apply for public assistance programs such as welfare, food stamps, WIC and any other public assistance program that are funded by tax payer dollars after she realizes that it takes money and lots of it to properly provide for and rear a child. Our children are suffering emotionally and mentally because of the irresponsible decisions to have children out of wedlock. Hey. If you are a single woman who has never been married, DO NOT HAVE ANY children that you can't afford should the single man that YOU CHOOSE  to get you pregnant runs off after realizing that fatherhood is not for him at this time.


Sadly, this current child support court system has done nothing but enable this irresponsible decision making in far too many women today! Sadly, too many of the women making these choices are Black. The acceptance of bad and irresponsible behavior in any form in our community has to stop! Ladies, stop choosing baby daddies over a husband! No matter how you try to spin this, it is YOU who can stop this horrible phenomenon of unjustified child support payments being made to single women who decide to become burdens on tax payer dollars. GET A HUSBAND and become a wife before you bring an innocent child into your life.


I am more than aware of the women who were/are made single mothers because of a divorce or the death of her husband. Even then and especially in the case of a divorce, she is really not a single mother, per say. However, I do have a serious problem with children being born to single/never married women and teenage girls. It is a FACT that a single/never married woman does not have to allow herself to become a single mother. It’s a choice that too many grown Black women are making and it needs to stop! A child deserves better!


I know that what I am saying will upset some people. I am bracing myself for the nasty and negative backlash. I hope that you get so upset that you join me in this mission to change the screwed up thinking of too many men and women in the black community when it comes to creating children out of wedlock and when you are not prepared mentally, financially, and emotionally to be a parent.

 

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